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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • I’m not going to tell you what to do. I am going to point out the red flags you cited and ask what you would say to a friend who was considering dating someone who behaves like this.

    he kept talking about… that i should’ve ditched my bf for him

    In other words, he did not respect your relationship when you were in one.

    badmouthed not only his gf of a few years

    He handles struggles in a relationship by badmouthing his partner to others,

    he left her bc she showed signs of schizophrenia

    and uses an armchair diagnosis as an excuse to get out of a relationship instead of just saying it’s not working for him anymore like an adult.

    he kept guilttripping me when i said i didn’t want to be his gf

    He doesn’t care about your preferences, and tries to manipulate you when they don’t match his.