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Cake day: September 12th, 2023

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  • Speaking as someone who did similar:

    You will never be able to make him understand why you’re cutting off contact. You may not see that now. Spork knows, I didn’t for a few years. But it’s true, if you try to explain he will simply try to debate or he’ll push you off as immature.

    To save your own sanity, all you can do is cut ties completely.

    Other people here may offer differing advice. Some of them haven’t been through this situation, so they can’t know the torment you’re going through.

    I can only speak from my experience.

    Cutting them off was the best thing I did for my mental health. Cutting them off was not easy. I still think of them sometimes, of what might have been. But I’m comfortable with my decision, I’m confident I made the right one. Through plenty of evidence-based psychology, I now understand the reasons.

    Getting back to your first question: sometimes, it’s good to be selfish for the right reasons. Maintaining your own health and well-being? That’s the right reason.

    Your father’s desire to hurt people is far more selfish than making him discuss something. But if you make him discuss it, he will only act threatened and refuse to see your point of view.

    You will only begin to heal once you cut him out of your life. I don’t say that lightly.

    Again, if someone hasn’t lived through a situation like this (and hasn’t had to make the same hard decisions), they can’t understand. So don’t be afraid of the naysayers.











  • Oh, it’s still hated.

    Epic couldn’t make a superior product, so instead they bribed lots of game developers to make things Epic exclusive.

    On top of that, even after being around for years, the Epic software is missing tons of features that Steam has had for years.

    Epic bleeds obscene amounts of money to build a separate set of infrastructure, rather than actually trying to improve things for gamers.

    Epic’s ostensibly biggest benefit is that it charges less money per transaction to developers. But Epic has, at this point, given away hundreds of free games, and Steam has so many more people with a long history of buying games. So there’s an argument to be made that Steam is still the better value, because it provides better exposure and a larger paying player base.