• 50shadesofautism@lemmy.zip
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    2 days ago

    Its slightly funny that this person asked for a man’s perspective yet you chimed in anyways, a bit ironic don’t you think?

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      1 day ago

      Hey, no, I don’t find it ironic or whatever. Ladybutterfly was trying to help, and that’s all that matters. They were kind, they cared and offered resources. That’s all that should matter.

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        18 hours ago

        In principle you are correct, which is exactly what makes it ironic. If it was any other user, I would agree with you, but LadyButterfly runs an instance where any comments or posts by men are immediately deleted; even if they are kind, respectful, and helpful.

        It’s ironic for her to chime in on a question asked specifically to men, because if this were on her instance and the genders were reversed, she would immediately delete the comment for no other reason than it was from a man.

    • Lucky_777@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      OP said “for those” could mean anyone. Plus, why see gender at all? Doesn’t affect how you see a parent, or at least it shouldn’t.