Absolutely!

Been there my friend

Thanks mate I re edited my comment to put it all back incase it’s helpful. And absolutely, gender can make a big difference to how a child is treated. It is kinda good that you don’t know what you’ve missed. I get what you mean about childhood still haunting you, it’s really hard to unlearn things we learned back then. Therapy can really help, it can change how we think… it’s about self development not things being wrong with us

Thanks shades, didn’t click about that. Really appreciate you pointing it out.

Absolutely

These are really valid questions! I’m a fiercely pro dad woman, and I’ll try to answer. IME people’s relationship with their dad tends to be different to their mom, they’re two different roles and two different people. IME people tend to go to dad for practical stuff (financial advice, DIY, moving things etc) and mom for home based practical and lengthy emotional discussions. Dad will also do emotional stuff, but often different style eg pep talks. For protection stuff, IME people go to dad.

Yes I love and miss my dad very much. A good person accepts mistakes, no matter what their role. And you can always go to a good parent cos they’re always safe.

I’m sorry you didnt get the dad all children deserve. Have you found !dadforaminute@lemmy.world People post when they need dad style advice or a hug.

Thanks otp, unfortunately I struggle to read text on lemmy coloured backgrounds. Writing is also just going to unavoidably foil me sometimes. Please bear in mind, the way written language developed is neurotypical, and so not how my brain is wired. If everyone’s brain was wired like me, written language would have developed differently. It isn’t as simple as learning linguistic rules… if it was, I’d have done that years ago.

Yep I’m neurodiverse I do that sometimes. Please don’t comment on my symptoms in future, it isn’t very nice for me. Thanks for understanding ♥️

Thanks mate. What do you think Netanyahu really wants?

Oh that’s a betrayal. Lord that destroys trust.

Ahhhh I’m with you. You’re really informed and just get it, so it’s been really useful for me

I’m sorry you didn’t have the love you deserved, it’s rough. If you ever need parenting pep talk or advice then !dadforaminute@lemmy.world is excellent for that

That’s an excellent point, there’s a massive incentive and they can see how things are playing out.

How has Irans deal with the US played out?

Ah good point, there’s all the other outcomes that aren’t just military.

Well you clearly know enough to explain it to the level you have! But yes I understand you’re not an expert

Thanks for taking the time to explain that, I’ve got my head round it more now

Ahhhh I see thanks

Thanks mate, realistically how much will other nations intervene?

Thanks that’s really easy to understand

Thankyou for this beautiful gift